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What Not to Do During the Two-Week Wait

Amy Divaraniya
Amy Divaraniya

The two-week wait is not only a stressful period, but the uncertainty and loss of control can make things even more challenging. Here's what to avoid during the two-week wait and what to do instead.

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The two-week wait is not only a stressful period, but the uncertainty and loss of control can make things even more challenging. Here's what to avoid during the two-week wait and what to do instead.

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The two-week wait is not only a stressful period, but the uncertainty and loss of control can make things even more challenging. Here's what to avoid during the two-week wait and what to do instead.

So, you’re trying to conceive and have done everything possible to prepare your body for fertility. But now you’ve hit the dreaded two-week period.

That moment between ovulation and a missed period can feel like torture, especially if you’ve been disappointed before.

In this article, we'll discuss what not to do during the two-week wait and what to try instead.

What is the two-week wait?

The two-week wait is the window between ovulation and your period. It’s an exciting yet stressful time where those trying to conceive eagerly anticipate the results of their efforts.

Anyone who has undergone fertility treatments will inform you that the two-week wait is a rollercoaster of ups and downs, hope and fear. One moment you’re optimistic about the prospect of becoming pregnant, and the next, you find yourself in a rabbit hole, desperately researching any symptom that points to a positive sign of pregnancy.

But the two-week wait — while a moment that feels like pure agony — is an opportunity to turn things around.

Instead of resorting to stress and unhealthy coping mechanisms, use this window to avoid the things that bring harm and prioritize things that serve your overall well-being.

7 things to avoid during the two-week wait (and what to do instead)

1. Don’t sit around waiting

The two-week wait is not an easy period to deal with emotionally. At first, you may feel excited knowing that you’re on the right path to achieving your goal of becoming pregnant.

But, if no pregnancy symptoms present themselves after your ovulation window, you may quickly feel discouraged. Therefore, it’s best to keep busy while you’re waiting to test.

Use this time to distract yourself with positive coping mechanisms such as spending time with friends, pampering yourself with a self-care evening, watching a funny movie, adventuring in nature, or anything to prevent you from fixating on the passing time.

2. Don’t ignore your partner

When you’re trying to conceive, and it’s not working how you expected, several issues can arise, including problems that may affect your relationship. It can create ongoing emotions and issues you may keep pushing under the rug for another day.

Unfortunately, this avoidance will cause increased stress that's not beneficial for your body or mind. Therefore, use this time to connect with your partner and share your feelings. Are you happy, angry, sad, or worried?

Tell them how you’re feeling and what you need from them moving forward. It will also allow them to do the same while strengthening your relationship through a difficult time.

While you’re at it, plan a date and do something fun to help you both get your minds off the anticipation of waiting.

3. Don’t dwell in stress

Like the first time, you may find it challenging to think of anything else but your dreams of becoming pregnant.

And, while your mind can be a wonderful tool in creating the life you want, too much stress and concern can sabotage your mental and physical health.

In fact, it provides the reverse effect. Too much stress can affect your hormone levels and can impact ovulation. Therefore, use the two-week wait as your opportunity to remove any stress from your life.

Reflect on areas you could improve, including setting boundaries within your professional and personal life to reduce stress. When you prioritize your self-care and emotional wellbeing, you’ll feel better, stronger, and more capable of coping with stress.

If you’ve ever wanted to create a mindful routine or include meditation in your life, take up yoga or journal, this is the opportunity to do so. Feed your mind and body with self-love, self-acceptance, and self-compassion.

4. Avoid negative self-talk

When we’re in the throes of anticipation and stress, our self-criticism volume may increase.

Statements like “You’re doing something wrong”, “You don’t deserve to have what you want”, and “You’ve tried so much before, what makes this time any different?” may play on repeat.

Especially if you’re prone to anxiety or experiencing a mental health concern like depression, the two-week wait may amplify those symptoms. It’s critical during this time to evaluate how you’re feeling.

Check-in with yourself regularly, prioritize your needs and seek support. Whether you receive support from a mental health professional, your family, friends, or loved ones, surround yourself with an uplifting and empowering community. It will make a difference as you wait.

5. Don’t test too early

It is so tempting to test early. Especially after all the hormone tests, ovulation estimations, and cycle-tracking, you’re eager to know the results. However, your body needs time to build up enough of the pregnancy hormone, known as human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG), to be detected by a urine test.

If you take your test too early, you may become discouraged, and the negative result may intensify your stress levels. As hard as it is to wait, your patience will provide a more accurate and reliable result.

6. Avoid symptom spotting

The internet has made symptom spotting too easy. If you’re prone to health anxiety, you may find yourself browsing Reddit forums, WebMD, and every health-related blog to analyze your potential pregnancy symptoms, otherwise known as symptom spotting.

But before you get too eager, find a healthier distraction. Even though you’re overwhelmed by the possibility of becoming pregnant, many potential early pregnancy symptoms are also common PMS symptoms.

Sore breasts, cramping, bloating, cravings, and mood swings may feel like pregnancy signs, but they could also indicate your period is starting soon.

Although it’s a difficult habit to let go of, symptom spotting can cause increased stress and misery. Use this time to connect with yourself, loved ones, and anything that uplifts you to help distract yourself as the time passes.

7. Don’t drink coffee or alcohol

While not a surprise, it’s worth mentioning: both alcohol and caffeine can delay your ovulation and may disrupt your ability to conceive.

Try to avoid alcohol entirely and limit your coffee intake to at least below 200 milligrams a day during the two-week period for optimal results.

>>MORE: Alcohol and Fertility: What's the Link?

If it’s too challenging to limit to a couple of coffees a day, a few alternatives include chai latte, herbal tea, matcha tea, hot cacao, or a turmeric latte.  

How do you manage the two-week wait?

Among this list of what not to do during the two-week wait and healthier alternatives, the number one tip is to be kind to yourself.

The two-week wait is not only a stressful period, but the uncertainty and loss of control can make things even more challenging. It’s therefore important to be kind and gentle to yourself.

Take it one day at a time and fill this waiting game with relaxation, self-care, and positive coping mechanisms. The more relaxed you feel, the easier it will be to manage the two-week wait.

FAQ

What should you expect during the two-week wait?

The two-week wait can be a stressful, anxiety-ridden time. Check in with and take care of yourself, and don't try to test too early.

What should you not do during the two-week wait?

While it's called the two-week wait, don't sit around and wait. Instead, focus on taking care of yourself. Yet don't hurry to test yourself, either.

Should you take a pregnancy test during the two-week wait?

No. Taking a pregnancy test too early may exacerbate stress. Waiting will give you a more accurate, clear result.

About the author

Amy Divaraniya
Dr. Aparna (Amy) Divaraniya is the Founder and CEO of Oova. She has over 10 years experience working in data science and a PhD in Biomedical Sciences. In 2017, Amy pivoted to women's healthcare after facing her own fertility struggles. Amy started Oova to give women control over their fertility by making high-quality hormone testing more accessible.

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Is it normal to have two periods in one month during perimenopause?
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Can I take progesterone if I'm breastfeeding?
Yes, progesterone is generally safe while breastfeeding and doesn't significantly affect milk supply. However, always discuss with your healthcare provider before starting any hormone supplementation while nursing.
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Is it safe to take progesterone throughout pregnancy?
Yes, when prescribed by your healthcare provider. Progesterone supplementation in early pregnancy is safe and can reduce miscarriage risk in women with low progesterone or a history of pregnancy loss. Most providers continue supplementation through the first trimester (weeks 10-12) when the placenta takes over.
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Can progesterone supplementation cause weight gain?
Progesterone can cause temporary water retention and bloating, which may show up as a few pounds on the scale, but it doesn't cause true fat weight gain. Most women don't experience significant weight changes from progesterone supplementation.
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Will progesterone supplementation delay my period?
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When during my cycle should I test progesterone levels?
Test progesterone levels during the luteal phase, typically 7 days after ovulation or around day 21 of a 28-day cycle. This is when progesterone should be at its peak, making it easier to identify if levels are too low or too high.
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Can stress affect 10 DPO symptoms?
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https://www.oova.life/blog/10-dpo
Is it better to test at 10 DPO or wait?
It's better to wait until 12–14 DPO for more accurate results. Testing at 10 DPO often leads to false negatives because hCG levels may still be too low. If you absolutely can't wait, use a sensitive early detection test with first morning urine, and be prepared to retest in 2–3 days if negative.
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Why am I cramping at 10 DPO?
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https://www.oova.life/blog/10-dpo
What are the chances of a BFP at 10 DPO?
If you're pregnant, you have about a 50–60% chance of getting a positive test at 10 DPO. This means there's a 40–50% chance of a false negative even if you conceived. Chances improve significantly by 12–14 DPO.
https://www.oova.life/blog/10-dpo
What DPO is most accurate for pregnancy testing?
14 DPO (the day of your missed period) is the most accurate time to test, with 99% accuracy. 12 DPO offers 80–90% accuracy. 10 DPO has only 50–60% accuracy. For best results, wait as long as you can—ideally until 12–14 DPO.
https://www.oova.life/blog/10-dpo
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Can high progesterone cause weight gain?
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Does stress affect estrogen levels?
Yes, chronic stress elevates cortisol, which can suppress estrogen production and disrupt hormonal balance. Stress reduction through meditation, yoga, adequate sleep, and self-care practices helps maintain optimal estrogen levels.
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When should I consider medical treatment for low estrogen?
Consider medical intervention if natural methods don't improve symptoms after 3 months, if symptoms severely impact quality of life, if you're experiencing early menopause (before 40), or if you have fertility concerns. Hormone replacement therapy may be appropriate in these cases.
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What are the signs that my estrogen is increasing?
Signs of rising estrogen include more regular menstrual cycles, reduced hot flashes, improved vaginal lubrication, better mood stability, increased energy, and improved skin elasticity. You may also notice reduced symptoms that originally indicated low estrogen.
https://www.oova.life/blog/how-to-increase-estrogen
Can exercise increase estrogen levels?
Yes, moderate exercise stimulates estrogen release and helps maintain hormonal balance. Aim for 150 minutes of moderate cardio weekly plus strength training twice per week. However, excessive exercise can actually lower estrogen, so balance is key.
https://www.oova.life/blog/how-to-increase-estrogen
How long does it take to increase estrogen naturally?
With consistent dietary and lifestyle changes, you may notice improvements in symptoms within 4-8 weeks. However, significant hormonal changes typically take 2-3 months. Tracking your cycle and symptoms can help you monitor progress.
https://www.oova.life/blog/how-to-increase-estrogen
What foods increase estrogen levels naturally?
Foods high in phytoestrogens can help increase estrogen naturally. The best options include flax seeds (high in lignans), soy products (tofu, tempeh, edamame), lentils, chickpeas, whole grains (oats, quinoa, brown rice), and garlic. These plant compounds mimic estrogen's effects in the body.
https://www.oova.life/blog/perimenopause
What helps relieve hot flashes quickly?
Cool environments, layered clothing, herbal teas, and medical treatments like gabapentin or HRT may help—depending on severity. Lifestyle changes like reducing caffeine and alcohol can also provide relief.
https://www.oova.life/blog/perimenopause
Are there tests to confirm perimenopause?
Yes. Tests measuring estradiol, LH, and FSH levels can indicate hormonal shifts—but diagnosis is often symptom-based since hormone levels fluctuate widely during perimenopause.
https://www.oova.life/blog/perimenopause
How do I know it's perimenopause and not something else?
A doctor may recommend hormone testing (like LH, E3G, and PdG) and track symptom timing. Diagnosis is often based on symptoms combined with age and menstrual pattern changes.
https://www.oova.life/blog/perimenopause
What's the earliest age perimenopause can start?
Some women begin experiencing symptoms as early as their mid-30s, though perimenopause typically starts between ages 38-45.
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Does perimenopause affect mental clarity?
Yes. Brain fog and difficulty concentrating are common during hormone fluctuations in perimenopause.
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What happens after the last sign of perimenopause?
After your final period, you enter postmenopause. You'll need 12 consecutive months without a period to confirm menopause. Many symptoms gradually improve, though some like vaginal dryness may persist without treatment.
https://www.oova.life/blog/TBD-10-symptoms-and-how-to-get-relief
When do perimenopause symptoms finally stop?
Some symptoms like brain fog improve after menopause, while others like hot flashes may continue for up to 10 years post-menopause. Vaginal symptoms often persist or worsen without treatment. Each person's timeline is different.
https://www.oova.life/blog/high-progesterone-symptoms
Is high progesterone a sign of pregnancy?
Yes, high progesterone is one of the earliest indicators of pregnancy. Progesterone levels rise significantly after conception to support the developing embryo and reach their peak during the third trimester.
https://www.oova.life/blog/TBD-10-symptoms-and-how-to-get-relief
Can you still get pregnant in late perimenopause?
Yes, you can still get pregnant during perimenopause as long as you're having periods, even if they're infrequent. Continue using birth control until you've gone 12 consecutive months without a period and have officially reached menopause.
https://www.oova.life/blog/TBD-10-symptoms-and-how-to-get-relief
Do symptoms get worse before perimenopause ends?
Yes, most perimenopause symptoms intensify in the final 1-2 years before menopause. Hot flashes peak around your final period, vaginal symptoms worsen, and mood changes increase. However, brain fog typically improves in late perimenopause.
https://www.oova.life/blog/TBD-10-symptoms-and-how-to-get-relief
How long does late perimenopause last?
Late perimenopause typically lasts 1-3 years before your final period. However, the exact duration varies significantly from person to person. You've reached menopause after 12 consecutive months without a period.
https://www.oova.life/blog/high-progesterone-symptoms
What are the symptoms of high progesterone?
High progesterone symptoms include fatigue, bloating, breast tenderness, weight gain, anxiety, depression, headaches, and food cravings. During pregnancy, you may also experience increased nipple sensitivity and muscle aches.
https://www.oova.life/blog/TBD-10-symptoms-and-how-to-get-relief
What are the first signs that perimenopause is ending?
The earliest signs include longer gaps between periods (60+ days), intensifying hot flashes that peak around your final period, and worsening vaginal dryness. These symptoms typically increase in late perimenopause before you reach official menopause.
https://www.oova.life/blog/high-progesterone-symptoms
When should I be concerned about high progesterone?
Consult a healthcare provider if you experience high progesterone symptoms outside your luteal phase when not pregnant, or if symptoms include severe pelvic pain, abnormal vaginal bleeding, or rapid weight gain while on hormone therapy.
https://www.oova.life/blog/high-progesterone-symptoms
How do you test progesterone levels?
Progesterone can be measured through blood tests at your doctor's office or at-home urine tests that measure PdG (a progesterone metabolite). Testing is typically done during the luteal phase, about 7 days after ovulation.

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